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Mar. 3rd, 2025 11:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
onsideshow does one make friends these days? anyone?
i'm... maybe... going through a bit of a crisis. one of my closest friends for college feels more distant than ever recently. before we get into it, i more than understand how ships-in-the-night adults friendships can be and that's 100%. friendships always contain nurture aspect especially when life starts lifing but surly it shouldn't be this hard. it shouldn't feel like this. since oct '24 my attempts to reach out for conversation are met with 1-2 replies then nothing (again i get it - life) but my most recent text, last wednesday got nothing. silence.
i'm trying so hard to not get in my head about it but obviously, it's not going very well... ok i might have been a bit dramatic and taken down some pictures of them SUE ME 😅. i think i'm going to try and a reach out one more time. just a "how are you, is everything ok" text and take it from there. i'm just... really scared, i really love this friend and already feel the devestation of nothing having them in my life anymore for good.
cross your fingers for me and also really, if anyone knows how to make friends lmaoo
i'm... maybe... going through a bit of a crisis. one of my closest friends for college feels more distant than ever recently. before we get into it, i more than understand how ships-in-the-night adults friendships can be and that's 100%. friendships always contain nurture aspect especially when life starts lifing but surly it shouldn't be this hard. it shouldn't feel like this. since oct '24 my attempts to reach out for conversation are met with 1-2 replies then nothing (again i get it - life) but my most recent text, last wednesday got nothing. silence.
i'm trying so hard to not get in my head about it but obviously, it's not going very well... ok i might have been a bit dramatic and taken down some pictures of them SUE ME 😅. i think i'm going to try and a reach out one more time. just a "how are you, is everything ok" text and take it from there. i'm just... really scared, i really love this friend and already feel the devestation of nothing having them in my life anymore for good.
cross your fingers for me and also really, if anyone knows how to make friends lmaoo
